AORTA films presents
The Party Isn't Over: Desire After Body Shifts
with Dirty Lola
Sun, May 10 from 3pm - 5pm (Eastern)
- 18+
An AORTAlive Workshop
Recording link sent out morning-of / Class starts at 3pm EST
**Recording available for 14 days after the class**
Join Dirty Lola for a candid, filthy, and funny workshop for kinky, pleasure-forward folks navigating aging, menopause, shifting libido, and bodies that no longer behave on command. You gain tools, language, and permission to adapt your desire, evolve your kink, and stay gloriously sexual—just with better lighting and more intentional knee placement.
Have you ever looked at your changing body and thought, “Well… this is new”? This workshop is for kinky, slutty, pleasure-forward people who still want to fuck, flirt, play, and feel desirable on their own terms—even as aging, menopause, shifting libido, sore joints, hormonal chaos, and brain fog start making themselves known without asking for consent. Join Dirty Lola for an honest, funny, and deeply affirming conversation about what it means to stay sexual when your body (and sometimes your brain) starts rewriting the rules.
Together, participants will explore how to adapt the sexy things they love: how kink can evolve, desire can be rerouted, and pleasure can be renegotiated when energy, lubrication, erections, orgasms, or focus don’t behave the way they used to. This isn’t about getting back to “normal”—it’s about learning new tricks, new rhythms, and new definitions of what counts as hot. Expect practical tools, shared wisdom, language for naming what’s changing, resources for learning more, and space to grieve what’s shifting without giving up the filthy joy of being a sexual being. Aging doesn’t mean the party’s over—it just means the playlist changes, the lighting gets better, and everyone’s more intentional about where they put their knees.
This class is open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Come and play!
Open to all 18+
About your Presenter:
Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex educator and speaker known for her honest, humorous approach to talking about pleasure, relationships, and self-discovery. Insta / Website
About AORTA films:
AORTA films champions queer and trans indie p()rn to create a future of ethical fuckery. An internationally award-winning studio currently celebrating their tenth year, AORTA films has been making “lusty, opulent, ethical fuckery” since 2015. Centering queer performers across a wide range of bodies and identities, AORTA films offers inventive explicit programming including 90+ short & feature films, a queer clip library, a semi-annual film festival, a guest artist series, commercial work, workshops, and more. This year, to celebrate their 10th year AORTA films launched AORTAlive, a home for live digital adult programing featuring online events including workshops, artist talks, performances, panels, and more. In addition to their site membership, all members of AORTA films get $10 tickets to all AORTAlive events. Not a member yet? See for yourself at www.AORTAfilms.com.
Tickets:
- AORTA films Members get exculsive access to our lowest-price $10 tickets!
(Not a member yet? Fix that here! Existing AORTA films Members, please find your ticket passcode in the member portal of AORTA's website.) - $15 Regular Ticket
- $30 Redistriubtion Ticket
- What's a Redistribution Ticket?
Making "lusty opulent ethical fuckery" available to everyone is important to us! If you're able to buy a ticket at the redistribution rate, it helps us give comps & discounts to those who need them to be able to attend while keeping our small business sustainable! Consider purchasing a ticket at this rate if you: benefit from race, class, ability, or gender privilege, have access to generational wealth, are able to travel and/or spend money recreationally, have savings, retirement accounts, or investments, own your own home or can comfortably afford rent, work part time or are unemployed by choice.
Can't afford a ticket, but want to attend? Send us an email at AORTAlive@AORTAfilms.com!
- What's a Redistribution Ticket?
Additional Info:
- This event will be held live on Zoom
- Ticket Sales end at 11:59pm EST the night before the event
- Ticket buyers will receive a link to the private discord server via email in the days leading up to the event, and we'll send it again the day of the event. Details on using Discord will be included.
- All attendees who purchase tickets will recieve a link to stream the event recording one day after the event, which will be good for the next 14 days.
- This recording will not be available for purchase after the fact - if you'd like to access the video after the event, please buy a ticket now!
- Attendees are welcome to attend the event with their camera on or off; at the begining of the event we'll detail guidelines for audience participation
- If you have any questions, please email AORTAlive@AORTAfilms.com
The presenters leading AORTA films’s events are curated for their skills and knowledge, however, the views and opinions of these educators does not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of AORTA FILMS, LLC. and this collaboration does not imply endorsement of any views expressed by the presenters.




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